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Do You Want To Know How to Get Your Ex Back?

Most of us experience a break up at some stage of our lives. Some individuals recover and move on and some individuals do not. Some individuals want to patch things up with their ex, but they just do not know how. Do you want to know how to get your ex back? Great…keep reading!

These individuals fail to understand that 90% of break ups can be prevented. Then too, even if you’ve fail to prevent a break up, there are always methods that can be learned and utilized to get back with ex.

With that said, are you ready to learn how to get your ex back? Awesome! The first thing you need to do in order to get back with ex is to objectively evaluate the purpose that brought on the break up in the first place. You need to know what mistakes you made that may have contributed to the break up, and then learn from your mistakes. Stop pointing your finger of blame at your ex – that simply does NOT work. When you acknowledge and take the responsibility for your part in the break up, then, and only then, can you proceed to the subsequent stage in your relationship.

Upon finishing step one mentioned in the previous paragraph, you now need to remember why your ex was captivated with you when you first met. And, we don’t just mean your appearance. You’re hot…so what? We mean the things you did for him that brought him joy and subsequently made him desire to spend a lot of time with you. What were you doing back then that you aren’t doing now? Think about it…make a list. Now, make a commitment to spend time with him the way you did prior to the “big” break up. Then too, maybe you can do things even better than you did before the break up? Relationships take work…always try to make things better with each and every passing day!

Next, think about whether or not he became distant? Did you become much more co-dependent – perhaps even somewhat “smothering” – in your desire to get closer to him? Did he, when responding to your apparent desperation, try to pull back even harder? Did you then try even harder to make him understand that you adore him? Did you spend tons of time trying to figure out what went wrong, and how to repair it?

These things you did when trying to figure out how to get your ex back may have made your man believe that you are needy, which is not an attractive attribute to pretty much any man on the planet. A man is captivated by a happy woman who has confidence. This kind of a woman makes a man feel really positive about the relationship. A needy woman is seen as someone who is absence of confidence – which is the type of woman most man try to steer clear of.

So what can you do if you want to learn how to get your ex back? Get back your confidence and happiness.

Those traits made your man fall for you in the first place, and they can make your man fall for you once more even following your break up with him. Also, bear in mind that men and women use different method of communication in their relationships. You know, the Venus and Mars thing. Ladies, when they try to get back with ex, they will try to “talk about it” with their man. They want to talk about and evaluate what went haywire in order to repair the partnership. Men will only see this as a sign of neediness, which will make them believe that it’s time to move on in order to find someone else to make them happy.

An additional thing you can do if you want to learn how to get your ex back is to keep in touch with him. He might be hesitant since you recently broke up, but don’t let that stop you. If you want him, you have to go get him! You need to remind him gently about why he fell for you in the first place, and gradually make him understand that you are the best one for him. Your reminding, however, need to be done in a way that shows that you are once more a happy and confident woman.

It goes without saying that shouting at him and blaming him will never in a million years score you any brownie points! Just becoming happy and confident again is attractive enough They create the strongest foundation when learning how to get your ex back once more.

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